We chase the tango “moments” we know are there to be had – those metaphorical orgasms of dance! My own thought, or way of expressing what is put so well in the article, is that those dance, or flow, moments come when one can “surf” the music in collaboration with ones partner in the dance, and in that surfing then express ones self. A lot has to come together to allow this to happen, and it is certainly not a time to be timid or inhibited!